The Holy Grail: Balance

The Holy Grail: Balance

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I have been out of blogging mode for a while now and the sheer craziness of the last month has done nothing to help my slacking.  I told Stacie this week:  I promise I’m getting back on the bandwagon!

So, here I am, admitting that I am behind in most every aspect of my life, exhausted in mind and certainly spirit.  I am worried about the health of some very dear family members, I have been working long hours and sleep is not coming easily. The old adage about a chicken with its head cut off is sadly a great way to describe me.

And what to do when you don’t even recognize yourself?  That’s where I’m at and here’s the word that keeps coming to mind:  balance.  Why is it that the simplest concepts (love thy neighbor, save first, breathe, drink 8 glasses of water, don’t run with scissors) are so damned hard to get a handle on?  And it’s not even a new quest for me–balance is my holy grail, never quite getting my hands on it, but setting out again and again, progressing slowly toward, at least, understanding. 

Moving into a new week, with packed days and worry perched on my shoulder like an ugly, black, matted crow, I am reminding myself of the following:

  • Show/tell the people you love that you love themNothing else matters all that much, but when business makes an entrance, this most vital piece can take a back seat.
  • Your job does not save anyone’s lifeTherefore, do a little reality check and rearrange priorities–it is not possible to be all things to all people.  That right there is a sure recipe for early onset insanity.
  • It is holiday time and you love, LOVE holiday time!  It is nearly inconceivable that it is past mid-November, but it is.  That is the truth and it is time to kick in with some spirit.
  • BREATHE.  Go to your yoga classAt least one.
  • Give yourself a break.  You aren’t perfect (not even close) and that is o.k.
  • If you’re going to watch TV, ditch the crime dramas and watch something funnyThe already overwhelmed brain does not need to focus on murderers, rapists and the lot.

This list is far from comprehensive, so some wisdom from others who have given this some thought:

It is not work that kills men; it is worry. Worry is rust upon the blade.
Henry Ward Beecher

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My lovely friend, Allison, has this next one nailed.  At work she coined the phrase “Laps not naps” to get us outside on a brisk walk during the mid-afternoon slump.  Getting a little perspective, a bit of space, never hurt anyone.stepoutside harmony

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And this one is resonating, especially as we walk with family through some difficult times:

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And just because:

glitterI feel a little better.  Funny what some thought, inspiration and a deep breath can accomplish.  Happy new week!

Banner photo:  Sophie’s lovely snow creature from last year.  Looking forward to what we’ll create over the next few winter months.

Happy November

Happy November

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September was one of those months where I told people “Just wake me when it’s over”. It was crazy busy. October ended up being just as busy; I traveled for work three weeks in a row. Needless to say, I’m pretty darn happy to have survived and I’m looking forward to a much quieter November. This is a bit of a random post since I’ve been out of the blogging groove for so long.

On My Nightstand

I just finished reading a fantastic book; . It’s a heart-warming book (no pun intended) about the resiliency of a little girl who grew up in a migrant family. Elva is the youngest of her siblings. Several years separates her from the second youngest in the family. She grew up watching her sisters and brothers do back-breaking work in the fields along with her parents while she spent hours at the edge entertaining herself. At times I would feel sorry for the family, Elva or one of her siblings. But, just when I would start to get sad, the writer brought me back to the joy and humor that they also shared.  I found myself wanting to check in with little Elva at the end of each day and I was never disappointed. Each chapter was a treat–written in the voice of a matter-of-fact little girl.  I was also moved by the adult Elva’s experience straddling multiple cultures; in her case the culture of poverty and field work to the culture of white-collar work and a middle-class lifestyle. Elva reflects on the differences between her childhood and that of her siblings. By many accounts, her upbringing was more privileged as she had access to resources her siblings didn’t.

The Yakima Valley is rich with migrant children and adults who grew up in migrant families. Barefoot Heart gave me a glimpse into the daily lives of those who want better for their children and work harder than you or I could ever imagine to put basic food on the table and to provide educational opportunities for the next generation. If you are looking for a new book for your nightstand, check it out and let me know what you think. I don’t think you will be disappointed.

On The Menu

The weather in the valley is just now turning. Halloween was 65 degrees which was a rare treat. We’ve had snow on Halloween but I don’t ever remember a warm October 31. There are reports that snow may be on its way. In spite of the warmer temperatures, I’ve been making Cheesy Potato Soup and Apple Puff Pancake. But I also love a good Cheese Strata for breakfast on a cold fall morning. This is a dish you make the night before and refrigerate. It’s great for Christmas since you just pop it in the oven in the morning. You can stick with basic egg and cheese or kick it up by adding bacon, ham, veggies. The options are endless.

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Egg & Cheese Strata
6 slices day old bread
3 tbsp. butter, softened
1 c. cheddar cheese, shredded
3 eggs, slightly beaten
1 1/2 c. milk
1 tsp. dry mustard
1/2 tsp. salt
1/8 tsp. pepper

Butter bread; cut in small cubes. Arrange bread cubes in buttered 2 quart casserole. Sprinkle cheese on top. Blend eggs, milk and seasonings, pour over bread and cheese mixture. Cover. Refrigerate several hours or overnight. Bake in a preheated 350 degree oven for 70 minutes or until golden brown.

 

 

 

Autumn on Instagram

My mom is a huge Instagram fan and user. It’s fun to see what she posts–usually photos of the grandkids. But she also loves capturing fall photos because it’s her favorite time of year. These are some of my recent favorites:

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Happy November friends. It’s good to be back.

Making Memories on the Oregon Coast: Seaside

Making Memories on the Oregon Coast: Seaside

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After spending a couple of days in beautiful Gleneden Beach we headed north on scenic Highway 101 to Seaside, Oregon. It’s a drive that I love but it’s a drive that lulls Dylan to sleep–literally. I happily made the drive.

I was excited to show the girls the beach town where I spent so many summer vacations. A little over two hours later we pulled into the small, bustling tourist town. It’s funny how childhood memories work. It’s easy to romanticize a time or place. It’s easy to remember the good and forget the bad. Then I started thinking that maybe, when you’re a kid, you don’t notice the bad.  That is, until we found a last-minute hotel room. The girls weren’t thrilled with our selection. The room was decorated circa 1980′s and was no match for the beautiful beach house we had just left. The girls asked me question after question about the hotels. “Were they always this ugly?”. “Did they always look old, even when you were little?”. In exacerbation I finally said “We didn’t care where we stayed. In fact, the junkiest motels here were fancy to us. We weren’t here for that reason”. Dylan, also a little weary from the conversation added “We were here for the beach”. Taylor piped up “I’m here for the food”. Well, okay then.

Seaside is much more crowded than Gleneden. The beach isn’t as clean as I remember. There are times that the beach gets cleaned up–like after the annual Fourth of July show. But the weekend we were there the shoreline was littered with debris and trash. But the girls didn’t notice. The arcade wasn’t as cool and exciting as I remembered. But the girls didn’t notice. They took it all in. The waves, the wide shoreline. They especially loved walking down Broadway and going in and out of the shops. And of course, they loved the food. It was so fun to see Seaside through their eyes–as I used to see it when I was their age.

It’s a detour that I am glad we took the time to take. It’s a piece of family history that was just waiting to be shared and there were memories just waiting to be made.

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Visiting the ocean front aquarium

Visiting the ocean front aquarium

Making Memories on the Oregon Coast: Stop 1 Gleneden Beach

Making Memories on the Oregon Coast: Stop 1 Gleneden Beach

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I grew up going to Seaside, Oregon during the summers. My great-grandparents started taking my grandmother and her siblings back in the 1950′s. In fact, my grandmother has video footage of The Miss Oregon Parade that rolled down Broadway and around the historical turnaround.

The Miss Oregon Parade in the summer of 1950 was a major affair. The pageant had only begun three years earlier in 1947 and the photo here shows the throngs of people out in force to witness the first inaugural Miss Oregon parade. Miss McMinnville, Elizabeth Ann Baker, wowed the judges with her classical piano rendition of “Clair De Lune” and was crowned Miss Oregon amidst throngs of supporters. Oregonians flocked to Seaside that year, and as you can see, folks had to get creative to secure a good view of the festivities. Standing elbow to elbow, some folks had to climb the street lamps (not exactly recommended) to get a decent vantage point. The parade itself featured Miss Oregon contestants from around the state, local dignitaries, as well as the very first Chevrolet convertible off the General Motors assembly line following World War II.

A tradition that’s been going strong for 65 years in Seaside, the Miss Oregon pageant is now held the last week in June every year at the Seaside Civic & Convention Center. You can check out the full schedule of Miss Oregon activities on the official website. This year, the parade will be held this Saturday, June 29 at 2pm and will be followed later that evening by the crowning ceremony at 7pm. For those planning on attending the parade, just make sure to stake out a spot downtown on Broadway a bit beforehand. As this photo demonstrates, the best views of Miss Oregon royalty are rewarded to the early birds.

 

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I have fond memories of foggy beach strolls, feeding the seals at the little aquarium, finding sand dollars and splashing in the waves regardless of the weather–something I wouldn’t dream of doing now. That water is cold!

Each summer I had thought about taking the girls to the Oregon Coast so they can start to make memories of their own. But each summer some other trip was more of a priority. The summer of 2013 was finally our year to make the trek west.

An aunt, whom I haven’t seen in too many years, generously invited us to stay with her and her husband at their house in Gleneden Beach. We happily accepted. Gleneden is situated between Lincoln City and Newport.

We got a late start on a Friday afternoon thanks to a sprinkler issue at home. Oh the joys of home ownership. We then hit brutal traffic in the Portland area due to an accident. Eventually we made it to the beach house, just in time for bed. So much for making memories that day.

We woke the next morning to some fog. If you know anything about the Oregon Coast you know that the days often start out foggy but then the fog lifts to reveal blue skies and bright sunshine. The girls were anxious to get to the beach so we walked the few blocks to give them their first glimpse of the Oregon waters. They weren’t disappointed.

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The girls with my beautiful aunt. I swear this lady doesn’t age!
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I had told the girls that the weather probably wouldn’t be very warm. I told them to pack swimsuits but they probably wouldn’t have the chance to wear them. Boy was I wrong! We went to the beach that first time to get a glimpse. They immediately wanted to go back to the house to change into their suits. The fog lifted that day and the sun came out. The girls were in the water and in the sand as much as we would allow them to be. At one point a seal was swimming in a wave right next to the girls. He was close enough to see his whiskers. The girls were in heaven. In all my years going to the Oregon Coast I have never swam with a seal. I told them that they were very lucky and that it isn’t typical to swim with seals. The next day it happened again. Unbelievable!

Gleneden Beach is stunning! It’s not very populated. It’s incredibly clean. We loved it! We’re thinking about renting a house next summer near my aunt and uncle so that we can bring more family members with us. They have a beautiful vacation community there called Bella Beach. I kicked myself for not bringing my camera with me to capture all the brightly painted doors.

The next day the weather started out beautiful and remained that way all day. The girls splashed and played until lunch time. After lunch we said good-bye to my sweet aunt and uncle and hit the road for a quick stop in Seaside.

My aunt, uncle and their dog ultra sweet dog Hannah. Poor thing was smothered by Taylor.

My aunt, uncle and their dog ultra sweet dog Hannah. Poor thing was smothered by Taylor.

The quintessential beach house

The quintessential beach house

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Next Stop: Seaside, Oregon

From Garden to Table

From Garden to Table

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Our small garden is in full production mode. This year I chose to keep it simple and plant just the things we eat most–cucumber, tomatoes and peppers. We also have mini-pumpkins, chives, strawberries and raspberries. We’ve taken to calling the berries our “bird feeder”. The birds have been terrible this year. Our neighbor’s raspberries have gone untouched. Ours is an active, 24-7, all-you-can-eat bird buffet. That has been frustrating. I will add another planter box (or two) next year and plant other staples–onions, carrots, herbs and maybe potatoes. For now I’m enjoying a smaller bounty which also means a smaller workload. And that’s something I can appreciate anytime.

green pepper, heirloom tomatoes, grape tomatoes, cucumber and mini-pumpkins

green pepper, heirloom tomatoes, grape tomatoes, cucumber and mini-pumpkins

I threw together a Greek Quinoa salad the other night. It was delicious! I took cooked Quinoa that had been refrigerated (about 4 cups), mixed it with chopped tomatoes, green pepper cut into 1″ pieces, diced cucumber, Feta cheese crumbles and thinly sliced red onion. I tossed the salad with a Lemon & Olive-Oil Vinaigrette using freshly squeezed lemon juice, olive oil, crushed garlic, dried Oregano, salt and pepper. I mix my salad dressings using as 1:2 or 1:3 ratio depending on how lemony or vinegary I want the dressing. If you want your dressing a little more tangy, go for one part lemon juice, two parts olive oil. For a milder version try one part lemon juice to three parts olive oil.

Anaheim peppers

Anaheim peppers

Anaheim peppers are my husband’s favorite. I simply cut the pepper in half, remove the seeds, brush lightly with olive oil, stuff the pepper with Feta or other goat cheese, sprinkle with dried Oregano or Italian Seasoning and put on the grill for 3-5 minutes. So easy and so tasty!

What are your go-to summer recipes?

A Soft Landing

A Soft Landing

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Do you ever wish you could record your dreams and play them for others so they can experience the event just like you did? I have a history of vivid dreams and a history of explaining them in such detail that my unsuspecting victim goes cross-eyed trying to keep up. I had one such dream the other night.

Dylan, Kendall, Taylor and I were on an airplane. Taylor and I had just come back from the bathroom and hadn’t had a chance to buckle our seat belts. The plane started to jerk wildly. After struggling I couldn’t buckle our belts so I hung on to Taylor tightly and tried my best to hang on to my arm rest. I remember feeling desperate to protect her while bracing for the impact I knew was coming. The nose of the plane took a deep and sudden dive. This is where I would love to show you a video. It was terrifying and amazing all at once. I could see the ground coming toward us quickly. And I again braced for an impact—an impact that never came. We landed softly in a pool. For a moment it seemed that the cabin had filled with water. I couldn’t breathe. I wasn’t sure how long I could last without air and I wasn’t sure how long Taylor, who at this point had turned into a naked infant, could last under water.  I was holding my breath in my sleep. Suddenly I realized that the cabin was full of air and I could breathe. Taylor and I were escorted to a window that exited onto a water slide. We slid down and landed softly in a warm pool where the lifeguard was busy ensuring swimmer safety and the swimmers were enjoying themselves barely taking notice of the giant plane now occupying their space. I caught my breath, thankful to be alive, and commented that the plane crash was something I needed to experience.

Why do I share this story with you and why do I think my mind reassured me that surviving a plane crash was necessary even if it was an imaginary plane crash? Because I’ve been struggling; struggling with anxiety and living in fear that something bad will happen at any moment. It’s not something new for me—this anxiety burden. In fact, it’s something I’m quite familiar with. I’ve always jumped if my phone rings after 9 p.m. My family and friends know better than to call me after my bedtime. They know how I panic.

Having kids has made it worse, especially at night. I usually let the cat outside at around 3:00 a.m. When I open the door, look out into the dark night and see the stars I panic. When I think about the fact that our time on earth is just a mere blip in time I feel overwhelmed and insignificant. I try to calm myself down. I remind myself that death is not something to fear. I don’t really fear my own death. I fear losing people before I’m ready for them to go. And will I ever really be ready for someone I love to go? Probably not.

Recently I read this blog post. “7 year-olds sell sunglasses at 11 p.m.” and “children stay up until two in the morning”. Clearly I need to relax. It reminded me that allowing my anxiety to live inside me is preventing me from truly living and may be preventing my kids from experiencing life in the way they are meant to—not that I want them selling sunglasses at 11 p.m. Dylan and I celebrated our wedding anniversary on Saturday. I arranged to have my mom watch the girls. She asked if she could have the girls overnight. I said no. Why? Because I think about fires and escape routes and not being there to make sure they are okay every minute of the night. So my mom missed out, my girls missed out and I missed out on a night alone with my husband.

All this to say, I don’t know how to fix this. But one thing I know for sure, living my life in fear of something terrible happening is no way to live. After all, even if something bad does happen, you never know what kind of soft landing will await you on the other side. It may be like taking a nose dive into a warm pool and finding a water slide to help you down gently. But worrying about it is simply a waste of time.

So good to remember

Summer Fun with Kids

Summer Fun with Kids

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If your kids are anything like mine they are already planning the many things they want to do this summer. We won’t be traveling this year so our days will be filled with lounging, reading, splashing in the water and arts and crafts.

The girls have been into watching Steve Spangler videos. Steve is a science educator. I have to admit, thanks to the science nerd in me, I’ve been a little addicted too. Steve Spangler has a couple of channels on YouTube– and . But the videos the girls like best can be found by entering Steve Spangler on Ellen into the YouTube search bar.

Many of the science experiments that Steve shares can be done at home. Here are two experiments the girls are itching to try.

Love this tie-dye technique using Sharpies and rubbing alcohol–

This is a simple activity using just two things you probably have at home–an empty water or soda bottle and a bike pump.

The videos are fun to watch even if you don’t want to try the experiments at home.

If you and your kids just need some down time after a day of fun in the sun, check out this great site: The Kid Should See This. It’s filled with videos that weren’t necessarily made for kids but they are fun and educational for both children and adults.

What about you? Are your kids already making plans? Are you traveling anywhere exciting?

A Productive Weekend

A Productive Weekend

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We decided to stay home this weekend and take advantage of the extra time to knock some projects off of our to-do list.

Our weekend has also been peppered with questions from the girls about the purpose of Memorial Day. It has given us a chance to talk about our fathers and their service in the military. Dylan and I both lost our biological fathers to car accidents when we were young. We don’t really have memories to share with the girls but we do have stories to pass on which were shared with us by our families as we grew up. The conversations this weekend remind me of another project I want to tackle in the future. We have our fathers’ flags. Currently they are stored in something like this–

But the triangle cases are starting to fall apart. I am in search of a creative, more modern way to display them. If you have any ideas, please send them my way.

Dylan’s big honey-do was to re-tile the powder room floor. I will have photos later in the week. My honey-dos revolved around the sewing machine. Some of you may remember that I have a love-hate relationship with my 1970′s era JC Penney sewing machine. Our relationship just got a little more complicated. The reverse button started acting up. I don’t know if she’s going to last much longer. But I was able to knock out these cuties.

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I started with this Market Floral fabric from The Alexander Henry Fabrics Collection. I simply cut and sewed four 19-inch squares and used ring clips to attach them to a tension rod. If you want super simple cafe curtains just buy square cloth napkins–no sewing required. It doesn’t get much simpler than that.

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What are you up to this weekend? Are you relaxing at home? Traveling? Doing projects?

Simple Scrub for Glowing Skin

Simple Scrub for Glowing Skin

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I’ve been making this simple sugar scrub with ingredients from my pantry. It’s just 1/8 cup white sugar and 1/8 cup olive oil. I use it in the shower to scrub away the dead, flaky skin. Those of you who have experienced a hot, dry Yakima summer know exactly why that’s necessary.

This scrub is also great to use after you have been using self-tanner for a few days. It gives your skin a healthy looking glow. And no more flakes–at least for the day.

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Homemade Sugar Scrub

  • 1/8 cup white sugar
  • 1/8 cup olive oil
  • Work the mixture into your skin in a circular motion paying close attention to those extra dry spots
  • Rinse off the sugar
  • Air dry or lightly pat dry. The remainder of the oil will absorb into your skin leaving it soft and smooth.
  • Do this once or twice a week

 

I Pinned It, They Ate It

I Pinned It, They Ate It

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I recently made two recipes that I had pinned on Pinterest. Both recipes were a huge hit with family and friends.

I made this tasty Chicken, Bacon, Avocado Chopped Salad from my board:

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Chicken, Bacon, Avocado Chopped Salad

Salad Ingredients:

  • 2 boneless, skinless chicken breasts
  • salt and pepper
  • 1 Tbsp. olive oil
  • 8 cups chopped Romaine lettuce
  • 8 slices bacon, cooked and diced (I used turkey bacon)
  • 4 ounces blue cheese, crumbled
  • 2 avocados, pitted and diced
  • 2 Roma tomatoes, diced
  • 1/4 cup garlic vinaigrette (see recipe below)
  • 1/4 cup chopped green onions

Garlic Herb Vinaigrette Ingredients:

  • 1/2 cup apple cider vinegar
  • 3 garlic cloves, minced
  • 1 Tbsp. Dijon mustard (optional)
  • pinch of salt and freshly cracked black pepper
  • 1 Tbsp. dried Italian seasonings
  • 1 1/2 cups extra virgin olive oil

To Make The Salad:

Season chicken breasts on both sides with salt and pepper. Heat oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat and add chicken. Cook for 3 minutes per side, or until the chicken is cooked through and no longer pink inside. (Cooking time will vary depending on the thickness of the chicken.) Remove chicken and let rest for at least 10 minutes. Dice chicken into small pieces.

Add the diced chicken, lettuce, bacon, blue cheese, avocados and tomatoes to a large bowl, and toss until combined. Drizzle or toss with garlic vinaigrette and serve immediately.

To Make The Vinaigrette: Whisk all ingredients together until combined.

I made these beautiful and amazing Strawberry Lemonade Cupcakes from my board for Kendall’s 10th Birthday. My sweet girl is 10! That’s hard to believe. These cupcakes were the perfect way to celebrate such a special occasion.

image via Bites of Sweetness blog

image via Bites of Sweetness blog

Strawberry Lemonade Cupcakes

Adapted from Annie’s Eats
Yield: about 18-20 cupcakes

Ingredients

For the cupcakes:

  • 3/4 cup (1 ½ sticks) unsalted butter, softened
  • 1 1/2 cups sugar
  • 2 eggs
  • 2 tsp. lemon zest
  • 2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
  • 1 1/2 tsp. baking powder
  • 3/4 tsp. salt
  • 3/4 cup milk
  • 2 tsp vanilla extract
  • For the lemonade syrup:
  • 3/4 cup lemonade concentrate, thawed
  • 1/3 cup confectioners’ sugar

(You can add more of less sugar depending on the level of sweetness you want. I wanted mine to have more of a lemon taste so I put more lemonade.)

For the frosting:

  • 1/4 cup strawberry puree (depending on how strong a flavor you want)
  • 8 oz. (250g) package cream cheese, softened
  • 1 ½ sticks (3/4 cup) unsalted butter, softened
  • 1 ¾ cups icing sugar, sifted
  • 1 tsp lemon juice
  • 1 tbsp vanilla

Procedure

For the cupcakes:

Preheat the oven to 350o F (the original recipe said 325oF but part of my batch didn’t rise properly and did all sorts of weird bubbly things). Line muffin pans with paper liners or grease. In a medium bowl, combine the flour, baking powder and salt. Set aside. In the bowl of an electric mixer with the paddle, beat the butter and sugar on medium speed until light and fluffy. Beat in the eggs one at a time, scraping down the bowl after each addition. Add the lemon zest. Add half of the flour mixture to the bowl and beat on low-speed until just incorporated. Add in the milk and mix until smooth. Add in the remaining flour mixture and mix on low-speed until just blended. Do not overmix. (If you want to add chunks of strawberries, now would be the time to fold them in).

Divide the batter evenly between the paper liners, filling them about 3/4 full. Bake about 20 to 25 minutes or until a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean. Allow to cool in the pan 5 minutes, then transfer to a wire rack to cool completely.

For the lemonade syrup:

Once the cupcakes have cooled, whisk together the lemonade and icing sugar in a small bowl until the sugar has dissolved. Poke several holes in the top of each cupcake with a toothpick and pour the syrup over the cupcakes, allowing it to soak in. (If you don’t want to waste your syrup on the counter top, simply hold the cupcake and pour the syrup over the bowl so the syrup drips back in it to reuse).

For the frosting:

Puree the strawberries in a food processor or blender and strain through a mesh sieve into a bowl. You’re going to have to use a rubber spatula or rubber pastry brush to mix the puree and push down otherwise the liquid won’t go through since it’s so thick. Keep going until there are only seeds left (have patience – do a little bit at a time!). Cream the butter and cream cheese in an electric mixer with the paddle on medium speed until light and fluffy. Add the powdered sugar, then the lemon juice, vanilla and strawberry puree. If you find that you want more strawberries, just make some more puree and add it to the frosting.

Decorate the cupcake with the frosting and garnish with fresh strawberries and a slice of lemon!

At one point I had some “technical” difficulties with the frosting. The combination of a too-small bowl and fast mixer caused centrifugal force to take over. Before I knew it Mandi and I were covered with strawberry, lemon cream cheese frosting. The walls and counters were covered too. But the end result was well worth the mess.